Sale! Gottman Relationship Coach: Dealing with Conflict $149.00 $99.00 View Details “Masters” of relationships also replace their criticism with a complaint: Let’s plan some time together as a family.” Start like this: “I’ve been missing you lately.Don’t start like this: “You don’t show up on time to meet me, you’ve been late to the kids’ soccer games, and you’re always out.Would you mind keeping your cell phone on you and checking it every once in a while?” Start like this: “I get so worried when you disappear.It’s so stressful when I can’t get in touch with you for long periods of time.” Don’t start like this: “You don’t pick up the phone when I call.I’m wondering if you could help me organize the den this weekend?” Start like this: “It was so great to have your help clearing out the garage a few weeks ago.I’m exhausted and you don’t even notice.” Don’t start like this: “You haven’t helped me with the housework for weeks.Start like this: “Remember when we went on that trip last summer? I’d love for us to do that again soon.I feel like you don’t care about having adventures with me like you used to.” Don’t start like this: “We literally never do anything fun anymore.John Gottman below: “Masters” of relationships use a Softened Start-Up: Here are some insights about the conflict management and self-care habits of healthy and happy couples, also known as relationship “Masters.” See tips from Dr.
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